Baptism: Reader's Request

Can a Person Be Withheld from Baptism?

In Acts 2:40-47, we see that baptism is necessary for salvation, but it is just one of several components of the process. Baptism, as part of the redemption plan, plays a vital role in the forgiveness of sins (Acts 2:38, 41; 8:12-13, 16, 38; 9:18; 10:47-48; 11:16; 16:15, 33; 18:8; 19:3-5; 22:16). However, this step should not be taken in isolation. The letter of Hebrews speaks of baptism as an elementary teaching (Heb. 6:1-3), and it is critical to place it within the full context of faith. To focus only on baptism risks distorting doctrine and undermining the unity of the church (1 Cor. 1:10-17; 1 Tim. 6:3-5).

Salvation is a comprehensive process that involves faith (Acts 16:31), repentance (Acts 2:38), confession of Jesus as Lord (Acts 8:37), and faithful living after baptism (Acts 2:42). It is important to understand that baptism is not the sole condition for salvation, but rather one part of a holistic plan. All components of the salvation process work together to provide clarity on our part in God’s redemptive plan.

The Importance of Patience in Instruction

While Scripture emphasizes the urgency of salvation, it also teaches the importance of patience in instruction. Jesus’ Great Commission urges His followers to make disciples of all nations, baptizing them and teaching them to observe everything He commanded (Matt. 28:19-20). Baptism should not be rushed. While the need for salvation from our sins is urgent, rushing someone into baptism without proper teaching and understanding is unscriptural and potentially harmful.

Paul instructs Timothy to “preach the word” with patience and careful teaching (2 Tim. 4:2). Teachers are responsible for ensuring that those they guide are fully aware of the significance of baptism and what it means to live a transformed life in Christ. To baptize without this foundational understanding risks leading someone into confusion and even discouragement when they encounter struggles in their walk of faith (Titus 2:1; James 3:1).

Patience allows time for a person to process their decision, to learn and to come to an informed faith. Baptism is not just a momentary act but the beginning of a lifelong commitment. Expediency is important in the sense that we should never delay needlessly when someone is ready, but if they are not ready, taking time to instruct with clarity is essential.

The Role of Community in Dealing with Sinful Relationships

In cases where someone is living in a sinful relationship, such as an adulterous marriage, Christians plays a vital role in providing guidance and support. Adultery is a complex and deeply personal sin, and repentance requires careful, compassionate teaching and support from the church.

The Bible emphasizes the importance of the community of believers in addressing sin (Matt. 18:15-17; Gal. 6:1-2). In addressing such intricate sin, believers should bear one another’s burdens and restore those caught in sin with a spirit of gentleness. This requires more than just telling someone to repent—it requires walking with them through the process. Marriage, particularly when it involves adultery, is not just a personal issue but one that often affects family, friends, and the wider church. The church can provide necessary accountability, encouragement, and resources to help someone make the right decisions in turning away from sin.

This community involvement can also bring clarity and support for repentance. The church’s role is not to ostracize but to restore, helping the person navigate the difficult choices that repentance may require (James 5:19-20). However, repentance is not optional—it is an essential part of salvation (Acts 17:30; 2 Cor. 7:10).

Coming to Jesus and Repentance

A person coming to Jesus does not need to have solved all their sin problems before baptism. Jesus invites all to come to Him, weary and burdened, and He will provide rest (Matt. 11:28-30). However, true repentance requires turning away from known sin. This does not mean that a person must have their entire life in order before they can come to Christ, but they must be willing to turn away from what they know to be wrong.

Acts 17:30 tells us that God “commands all people everywhere to repent.” This includes sins that are within our knowledge and capacity to address. For instance, someone living in adultery must repent by turning away from that sinful relationship before they are baptized. This turning away is part of the repentance that is required before baptism (Acts 2:38). Repentance is not about perfect moral behavior but about a heart that is willing to submit to God and turn from known sin (Luke 13:3).

It is crucial to recognize that baptism is the beginning of a transformation process. As individuals grow in their faith, they will continue to identify and address other areas of sin in their lives. The initial repentance that occurs before baptism is focused on the sins that are known, but this does not exclude the need for ongoing repentance and sanctification after baptism (1 John 1:9).

Conclusion

Baptism is essential, but it is not the only requirement for salvation. Patience is necessary when instructing others about baptism, ensuring that they have a clear understanding of what it means to follow Christ. Salvation should be approached with urgency, but it is equally important not to rush someone into baptism without proper teaching. Additionally, when dealing with complex sins such as adultery, Christians must be involved to provide support, accountability, and guidance.

Repentance is required before baptism, but coming to Jesus does not demand that all sins be “fixed” beforehand. Instead, a willingness to turn from known sin is essential, and the journey of following Christ will include continued growth and repentance. Our role as teachers and the church is to guide others patiently and faithfully, ensuring that they understand the full scope of God’s redemptive plan.